You have only one true Source. As you approach the healing of the mind, you are doing a service to the whole of mankind. Your family of origin may have been a strong focus before, but now your focus "softens" or widens and begins to take on universal proportions. God did not create this world; it is a world of idolatry. We have "idolized" concepts such as romantic love and traditional family values. Don't worry about the biblical "golden calf." Far greater idols are concepts like "mom" and "dad . . .