What does it mean to be honest with yourself? If you think you are a person bound by time and space, then you haven’t been honest enough. Therefore, first things first: you need to turn towards getting truly honest, and never look back. Be honest with how you feel. You don't have to try to avoid the emotions. You can have an attitude in your heart of, "Show me, guide me. Expose what I believe in." What lies beneath your upset . . .