Some of us have read philosophies that would say to "accentuate the positive and eliminate the negative," but we must go much deeper in the mind in order to see that the ego invented both the "negative" AND the "positive." The "good" also needs to be forgiven along with the "bad," since both come from the dualistic perception of the ego. When we judge things as positive or negative, it's just making duality, and therefore separation, real. Love is beyond it all . . .