First find the true Joy in life, then transcendence is a given. Light experiences are pure revelation and unspeakable in terms of language and form. From fragmentation to wholeness, the universe is literally reinterpreted and transcended. Here, there is no individual "I." When we see the meaninglessness of this world, it is literally "game over" for the ego, which is, of course, terrifying to it. All time is "sucked out" of perception when we truly allow "all things to be exactly as they are . . .