It is easy to love and it is hard to hate. You have to actually judge, which is not in your nature, in order to hate. Love is natural. It is who you are. Therefore, all situations can only have one outcome: an experience of love.
This is why getting married or breaking up is the same thing: a call for love. It is simply a time for healing for everyone involved. It is natural to love in all instances. It’s hard for you to hate or even have a grievance. So you might as well surrender the mind to God by giving up silly human identities.
There is no hate in God, so living in love and harmony is inevitable. Innocence is always the answer. Even if there is seeming evidence such as others finger-pointing and guilt-finding, there is only innocence in the other. Your time is too precious for blame. Your time is to be used to heal. Each seeming human body can be a loving reminder of your innocence.
This reminder cannot be outside of you. This is why ultimately the reminder is for you, just as forgiveness is always for you. It is easy to love and hard to hate.