False empathy, or care-taking, is generally seen as being nice and good, but it is part of the ego's death wish. When you give yourself over to Spirit, your perception of what is truly helpful will change. You come to see that you were engaged in trying to save people. It is deception. True empathy is aligning with what is true, bringing it back to your mind, paying attention to your feelings, and not taking on anything false. You no longer care about others' reactions. You become happy for no earthly reason . . .