Extending is generally seen as communication. The ego defines communication as using words, or nonverbal signs, to communicate between one body and another. Yet when you align with purpose, the Holy Spirit will help refine this horizontal communication into "Aha!" moments of vertical communion with God. The Holy Spirit can give you ideas for avenues of extending. The more you give yourself over to them, you will experience a "glowy" heart-bursting feeling that will transfer to other areas. It is giving a single purpose to all perceptions, unifying perception. That is what forgiveness is . . .