Being single or “in relationship” is a concept that the Spirit uses as a teaching aid. The key to relationships is forgiveness and this is the only purpose of relationships as taught in ACIM. The use of romantic relationships can be a great speed-up for the mind to recognize its relationship with God.
We seem to have a variety of relationships. Yet we are teaching and learning about ourselves in every interaction. We want to tune into guidance and relationships are part of the plan. We want to forgive as deeply as we can in every encounter. Building commitment with the Holy Spirit helps us face the darkness that comes up.
This can be seen as true purpose in life, to let go of things I need in a relationship and use them as a way of blessing and allowing the unfolding of True Love. The Spirit will bring you ways to meet people and even the best dating sites are no match for Him. If the mind has the question, “how to meet a woman” or “how to meet a man,” these can be great questions for the Spirit to answer as an experience for Awakening.